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Wednesday's Words to Live By For January 18th to January 24th

"Forgiving & Forgetting" Part IV


Steps to overcome the fear of rejection:

1. Read through these materials and make a conscious decision not to operate out of a fear of rejection any longer. Start a journal.

2. Identify in your journal the person (s) from whom you fear rejection. The people whose rejection I fear include: (list them).

3. Identify in your journal how your fear of rejection is displayed in your behavior toward the people you identified in Step 2. The behavior patterns reflecting my fear of rejection include: (list them).

4. Identify in your journal healthy, productive, and rational alternative behavior patterns to those identified in Step 4. The consequences of using alternative behavior patterns would be: (list them).

5. Identify in your journal what obstacles other than your fear of rejection; exist in your adopting the alternative behavior listed in Step 4The obstacles that block my adopting the alternative behavior in Step 4 include: (list them).

6. Analyze the obstacles listed in Step 6 and identify in your journal whether they are irrational beliefs or actual obstacles to change. If they are irrational beliefs, use the Tools for Coping Series refutation of irrational beliefs, in Tools for Personal Growth. If the obstacles are not irrational belief, use the five dimensional problem-solving model found in Production Problem Solving, to find alternatives to rid yourself of these obstacles, go to this website for the Tools for Coping Series, and Tools for Personal Growth:  

The original website the "Forgiving & Forgetting" information was taken from was: but it is no longer available.

7. Implement alternative behavior patterns not based on a fear of rejection.

8. If you are still having problems, return to Step 1 and begin again. Remember, God is with you and He will help us. But you must actively seek for your deliverance. You must put forth the effort and be persistent in your recovery process.


Dr. Dorothy E. Hooks